Friday, February 4, 2011



I have been with my girlfriend from more than a year and by god have i learn a lot. she has thought me so many things about myself! she has made me discover the kind of person I really am. I know for a fact now that I am selfish! why is that good a thing? Its not! its a good thing that now i KNOW that i am selfish. this knowledge brings me closer to discover who I am. Little by little im now more "real" more authentic thanks to her. And it feels so good saying and liking/hating what you true self real does. I have remove most of this mask i use to wear all my life. I do not fake to be polite now i want to be polite! how has anyone change your life?
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19 comments:

  1. TastyFebruary 4, 2011 at 4:29 PM

    Hey I'm glad to hear that. Other people can teach us so much about ourselves.. Great to see a post that covers that.

    I think everyone changes everyones life every day. My ex taught me a lot about myself, similar to what you've learned learn with your current gf. Humans are social creatures; let's keep it that way! :)

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  2. MdmjuniorFebruary 4, 2011 at 4:36 PM

    congrats bro

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  3. The_illustrative_MindFebruary 4, 2011 at 4:37 PM

    Haven't loved in a very long time and it just feels like I've been living the same life since.

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  4. AnonymousFebruary 4, 2011 at 4:50 PM

    I'm a bit of an introvert, so I end up learning by watching strangers interact with each other. However, being selfish isn't a bad thing. It might be painted as a negative trait, but it's simply our desire to want what's best for ourselves. There's nothing wrong with that.

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  5. Christopher HellaFebruary 4, 2011 at 5:01 PM

    i'm with a beautiful girl myself, 7 months today. :) congrats!

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  6. AnonymousFebruary 4, 2011 at 5:02 PM

    Hope everything goes well for you dude.

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  7. Colin and NickolasFebruary 4, 2011 at 5:26 PM

    Great story, I followed you, heres my blog
    colinandnick.blogspot.com

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  8. TristieFebruary 4, 2011 at 6:20 PM

    As I got older I guess I changed (Mentally, thought process), not such a great example though >.< I did enjoy reading your post, looking forward to more!

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  9. Nik MekeenaFebruary 4, 2011 at 8:08 PM

    Great blog, Im gonna start following you!! Check out mine blog too if youd like.

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  10. andrewpledgerFebruary 4, 2011 at 10:07 PM

    ^_^

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  11. metalpark_73189February 4, 2011 at 10:14 PM

    Yea, I'm with the love of my life and I too know how you feel. I've became such a different person because of her and I'm now the happiest man in the world.

    Following and supporting!

    http://marksantsrants.blogspot.com/

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  12. CoilisFebruary 4, 2011 at 10:22 PM

    Been dating this girl for 3 years and love her to death.

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  13. xazbaschbossFebruary 4, 2011 at 11:06 PM

    Good on you man. A healthy relationship with someone you love is criminally rare in today's world.

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  14. NeuroFebruary 5, 2011 at 12:07 AM

    Self awareness is the best attribute a person can have imho

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  15. TeakayFebruary 5, 2011 at 3:56 AM

    too bad she didn't teach you proper punctuation and syntax

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  16. BassislvFebruary 5, 2011 at 9:01 AM

    i feel happy for you, i am with my gf for more than one year too, feels really good man

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  17. DavidFebruary 5, 2011 at 9:20 AM

    That's great to hear, man. I've been on and off with my gf now since we were freshmen in high school. Best feeling in the world.

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  18. VenoFebruary 5, 2011 at 11:04 AM

    Neuro said it well, self awareness is very important!

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  19. yermolayFebruary 6, 2011 at 10:49 AM

    i'd love to give you some advice but i'm a bit of a novice when it comes to relationships myself

    i don't understand a lot of social rituals

    oh well : )

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